People still ask if I am ready. I still don't know how to answer that. Our baby is supposedly ready as far as position goes, evidently he flipped and is now "vertex" rather than "breach." And after having a couple of amazing baby showers last week, both Baby and I are much more prepared in a necessity sense than before. I'm pretty sure I have little control over the exact date of arrival, but wishing for this baby to be a boy didn't seem to do any harm.
In my "perfect world" Baby Savage would wait until after we have moved (that would be this weekend). In fact, he would also wait until after we have somewhat settled in to our new place (give me another couple weeks for that). The most ideal date would be May 26th, since that is Trent's birthday, and also Trent's Dad's birthday. Three generations, that would be something. But the true due date- which is the 28th, wouldn't be bad either, it's the first day of Trent's 2 week break from school. The next two days after that would be okay too, but anything in the month of June is not part of my "perfect world" plan.
I think the reality of this pregnancy will hit me like a million bricks once I go into labor, and especially once I see the baby outside of the womb. Until then I will try to get as much prepared as possible- any last minute advice would be wonderful :)
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My advice: There's nothing you can do to prepare for what's to come. :) Mostly in good ways though! I can't wait for his arrival. Did you get that one place?
My real advice: Once he comes, take it one day at a time- sometimes one hour at a time. And enjoy each one. Otherwise the thought of being a mother to that little angel can become so overwhelming!
I can't believe you are full-term now either. I agree with the previous comment, nothing can really prepare you so I don't have any real advice. I think you will adjust very well to being a mother though. You are so great with babies and kids. It will, of course, have its challenges, but you'll do so well. I can't wait to see him!
What a wonderful post - I love it! I am so glad the baby is no longer breach. And I am glad you are moving - that is great! When you and Trent see this little boy, your hearts will swell with love and thankfulness. It is a miracle!
Oh Amelia, I am so thrilled for you and Trent!!! I can not wait to see pictures of your new little bundle in your arms:):) And it will for sure " hit you like a ton of bricks" when you go into labor, then you will know that it is really happening and you will know it is time to get the epidural going:):):)
The birth of three generations on the same day would be so neat! I'm rooting that day. :)
He definitly needs to come on Trent's B'day! That would be crazy:) Can't wait to meet the little guy! Better start finalizing his name!
I would sleep non stop between now and the delivery because it will soon be a thing of the past!
Of course, I have to add that May 26th is also your anniversary. It would be so amazing if he's born on that day! However, of course we'll love him whenever he shows up. See you soon, and I hope you have an easy labor.
amelia- your first always comes when he wants, the others now thats a different story. let us know and good luck.just remember to bring a ipod or something to listen to. soft relaxing music helps.
what i meant was the first one usually comes within a day or two either way of the due date . the others (children that is) can come between a week and a half before and a week after. at least thats what i've heard. mine all came early.
You will both be great parents! I am so excited for you. I really would like to chat, so if you have any free time call me:) We are back in MI for the summer and as of now i have nothing to do (no job yet) so call me anytime!
Well, it is almost 2AM and I am still wide awake!!!I don't know how I can be, since we worked nonstop all weekend to get you moved! I had the best mother's day ever, as we worked on getting your new home ready for that sweet little boy. I just hope you don't go into labor this week after all that we did this weekend!!! You home looks so cute and and you just relax and enjoy these next few weeks. I am just so excited that you found the townhouse and the baby has a room all set up...I know that was stressing you out being in the other apartment. Heavenly Father really does look out for us doesn't he!!! Call me as soon as you start feeling those contactions...just don't call within the next 24 hours...I think once I go to bed I will sleep for days!!! I love you!
Wow, I will cross my fingers for May 26th. That would be awesome. I'm glad you guys got settled into your new place. How perfect that your husband has 2 weeks off coming up. My advice is just relax and enjoy the ride. The second you are in labor until delivery is a huge adrenaline rush. I really love that part the most and look forward to it. Weird huh? Get lots of sleep, go see some movies, and relax by the pool. Good luck! Let us know if you guys need anything!
May is a great month to have your first baby! Christian just turned 18 on May 8th. You will be a great Mom and Trent will be a great Dad. I have no doubt about that. Love you.
My advice is take lots of pictures so I can share this wonderful time with you. Other than that, take notes so I can get advice from you one day! I'm so excited for you.
Amelia, I am writing to remind you of your deal you made with Trent. And since he will have 2 weeks off after the baby is born, he will be changing a lot of diapers I think!!! Don't forget!! haha..
My advice is don't listen to people who tell you it only gets harder... the newborn baby part is the hardest part, and it only gets easier, because it gets more fun!! I think that is mean when people tell you it will get harder because I don't think it is true!! When people told me that I wanted to cry and wondered how I would ever do it!! haha.. you will be great and I can't wait to see some pictures of the little guy... oh and we definitely need your new address!
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